it's all about energy

Relationships flow like a river, creating intimacy, union or stagnation, + polarising distance - whether that is in relationship to ourselves or outwards to others. All are based on an auto-pilot of learnt parent-child dynamics and once we make this unconscious map conscious, it allows us 3 choices to fall into a dance: where it feels soft + safe (Positive Bonding Pattern); where the dance becomes staccato, anxiety driven and distant (Negative Bonding Pattern); where we step out of the bonding pattern altogether and co-create a new dance based on the awareness of who we are today, not when we first met etc

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Life is polarity - we have to integrate all parts to become whole + not expect others to fill our gaps